It goes without saying 2020 has been one of the toughest years in recent memory. It affected millions of people, some more than others. A lot of people lost not only jobs but loved ones due to the Covid-19 Pandemic.

Although most medical or emergency service fields kept their jobs, it didn't come without sacrifice. Many working directly with Covid-19 patients were scared to bring it home to their families. This lead to living in hotels for days or weeks at a time, keeping a distance from loved ones, or simply just working long hours that kept them away from home.

Often, an emergency service profession already faces its employees with depression and PTSD. Even worse this year, you were essentially forced to take it on alone if you suffer from it. More covid cases called for longer shifts and less time for self-care and loved ones. Sporting events, gyms, vacations, Broadway musicals, all things people enjoy doing to reset and relax their minds, were all taken away this year. People were forced to find alternatives to reset and relax their minds. Some were able to do so, and unfortunately, some were not.

If you take any life lesson from 2020, don't take anything for granted and appreciate what you have. As we begin to get into the heart of the holiday season, we must be thankful for what we do have. If you were lucky enough not to be as affected by the Covid-19 pandemic, remember those who have been. The smallest deed could change someone's life. There are plenty of ways to help out local families in need. Many local groups may provide an "adopt-a-family" project; you can donate to a local charity that helps a family or my personal favorite, "Toys-for-tots." It may not help with families' necessary items, but it does help make sure children have something to open on Christmas Morning.

Always try to look for the positive in situations. This holiday season, I see more houses decorated in my town than in previous years. That may sound like something that's not pertinent to this, but maybe for some, that's a sign of normalcy. Maybe a decorated block of houses can brighten someone's day. There is so much negativity on social media and TV, and it feels like that's all that's out there. Believe me; there is still plenty of good out there. We'll get through this together just as we got through anything else.

2021 will be a chance for us as emergency service workers and, more importantly, as humans to reset and begin fresh. I'd like to wish everyone and their families a happy and safe holiday season. I'll be working on some more fire-related articles for 2021 and very thankful to the firehouse tribune for the opportunity to do so. Until then, again, enjoy your holiday season and take care of each other. We're all on the same team.